Damien Riley, “Present!”

I asked myself a question today as I was preparing to go out into my Truman Show here at the Funny Farm here I call my life. The question was based half on Eckhart Tolle’s book, A New Earth and half on my own outlook on life. Blogs can be a great way to journal what is going on in your life while getting feedback as well.   Since I am turning 39 June 9th, I am tending towards the philosophical side. I know you may find it hard to believe that I love it but I do. Happiness is found there as well I am finding.

We are all in a proverbial “funny farm” I think and so there are two sides of life we need to address to succeed, get out, and to be happy: 1) The side of neurophilosophy, or our physical brains, and 2) the cognitive side. This “present” idea is a cognitive idea. (and what’s cool about it is you don’t even get charged a copay here, though you may want to subscribe via rss -or- inspiration, psychology, blogging .

Anyway, Eckhart’s book is all about being “conscious.” (See here for another post I wrote about him) If I could count the number of times he uses that word, I would say it’s probably more than any other word apart from “the.”

It’s an awesome word to keep in your head all day “conscious, conscious, conscious.” If you have ever been unconscious (as I many times am) in a room you know how much you can miss just pretending to be there. I strive to be conscious always but today that is not my word. Today I am present.

Present is the word on the way to consciousness. Like water spilling over from a river into the sea, consciousness usually merges with present. Remember the annoying, idiotic boy in grade school who after every person’s name was called for attendance with a resounding “here” had to shout “present!” You know, the one the teachers always ranted about. Well I am/was that kid and the only difference is now I am shouting “present” on my blog.  Here’s my simple goal today for being present.

Today I will be present by looking people in the eye

I will also say this mantra today every time I start to think I am becoming “absent:”

(YOUR NAME HERE), Present!!!

Here’s a question for you: maybe down the road we can get more deep, but for now: In what simple way can I move toward being present today? Here’s a picture of me a couple years ago fully present.  Can every moment be that way?  That is my goal.

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Today I will be present by looking people in the eye.

In what way will you be present today?

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Comment by Katelyn
2008-06-04 19:40:17

That’s a good idea, to keep conscious about your surroundings and people’s feelings. Something to constantly keep in mind and apply to your everyday life.

I’d really like to know what you think of this book when you’re finished it. I haven’t even picked it up yet, but I’ve been hearing mixed reviews about it. I’d like to just read it to see what I think.

Katelyns last blog post..Indiana Jones - Yay or Nay?

 
Comment by Damien Riley
2008-06-04 22:06:18

Book is great! Read it, if you are ready for it. Even he says in the intro that not everybody is.

 
2008-06-05 13:34:23

This is totally cool advice and something I was just thinking about yesterday. We were at the mall getting all of the last minute things (necklace, pedicure, etc.) for my daughter because she graduates tonight. I was so absorbed in trying to make sure we had everything we needed that I completely missed hearing a funny story that my oldest daughter was telling. She asked me” Mom, don’t you think that’s funny?” and I swear, I wasn’t able to recall a word she said.

I wasn’t conscious, as you write about in this post. I was letting my stress mask the good stuff. Thanks so much for the reminder and it couldn’t have come at a better time!!!! Today I will be conscious, too!!!!

Jessica The Rock Chicks last blog post..Holy Smokes!

 
Comment by Geri Atric
2008-06-05 14:19:04

Hi Damien,
Was just lurking around the discussion page and decided to nip past all the URL’s clamouring for your review - and view you instead (!)
Nice posting. Not sure if I’m fully ‘present’ today or any other day for that matter but I can vaguely remember burning the toast this morning, so I probably am.. Anyway, nice to have stumbled across your blog.
Geri.

Geri Atrics last blog post..TICKET TO RIDE

 
Comment by Damien Riley
2008-06-05 16:10:27

@JTRC: Awesome testimonial!!!

Geri Atric: Hilarious username! I hope to read more of your feedback.

 
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